Important Qualities Women Look For In Men

Wouldn’t it be nice if we know what women want in a man? There were numerous polls asking women what qualities they are looking for and we get all sorts of answers like kindness, respect, loyalty, attentive, honesty, etc. etc. It’s hard being a perfect guy having all those; but a few qualities that have great impact are the following. See if you have them.

Strong sense of self

You demonstrate confidence and comfort in your body and your abilities. You know what you want, you set goals and achieve them. You define yourself rather than let your environment define you. Though you’re not better than everyone around you, you have an attitude of being better.

Admits mistakes and learns from them

No one likes being blamed and not everything that goes wrong is really your fault. Sometimes things just don’t work out. But it’s nice if you can take responsibility, get over it, and learn from it instead of being defensive.

Admitting mistakes is not a sign of weakness. It shows humility. It shows that you are more concerned on others than your reputation.

Stands up for what he believes in but considers others’ opinions

Though people always knock you down, you should always get back up. You listen to others but don’t let their opinions put you down.

People say you can’t do it because they believe they can’t do it; but if you have confidence in your abilities, you know you can make a difference.

“Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone.” – anonymous

Doesn’t feel the need to impress others

Though you are good or successful at something, you don’t worry about people not recognizing it. You don’t need their praises and compliments to fuel you. You keep doing what you’re good at.

You don’t feel the need to spend on flashy cars or expensive cellphones. As long as what you have can take care of the basics efficiently, they are good enough.

Knows how to listen and truly care

You show that you are interested in her. You show sympathy when she is in grief and you are attentive to her needs. You don’t interrupt when she talks.

You retain information she gives you; and you use that information to make her feel closer to you, at the same time know her better.

Can tell a joke

You can never dislike someone who can make you laugh. Humor shows her that you are witty and intelligent.

You know when to get serious and when to get goofy. You know how to cheer her up and make her laugh without making yourself look like a fool.  You are no clown, but you know the right words that will put a smile on her face. You are aware of some jokes that offend her.


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How To Treat A Lady

Many men today don’t know what it takes to be a gentleman. Having good looks and wealth alone are not enough to impress. Women are exposed to romantic books and movies and are inclined to look for the Prince Charming in their man. You can impress your lady by being a gentleman using these tips.

1. Always treat her like a princess

This includes everything from opening the door for her, pulling out a chair when she sits down, offering her your jacket when she is feeling a bit cold. Do whatever that will make her feel so treasured and well-taken cared off. These are things that may demand little in efforts, but mean really big.

2. Always listen.

When you are with her, give her undivided attention. It shows that you care. Listen attentively to what she says. May it be from a great weekend, a stressful day at the office, or of future plans with you. But don’t be too passive. Nobody enjoys talking to a wall. If she complains about her problems such as a stressful day or about an irritating office mate, don’t cut her off. And never give unsolicited advice. She want sympathy, not solutions. Simply encourage her to talk about it by saying “What happened?” or “Tell me about it”. She wants your listening ear, not your bickering mouth.

3. Give sweet compliments

Every girl loves compliments, especially when you mean it. It could be as little as “you look pretty in your dress”, or as much as “you are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen”. But compliment on something you truly believe and choose your words wisely. Saying “sexy” can be offensive to some women. You don’t have to limit compliments to physical beauty. You can admire her other traits such as her thoughtfulness by saying how you appreciate her bringing you breakfast when she knew you missed it.

4. Be polite to other people

We tend to forget that being a gentleman not only applies to how you treat your lady but also to people around you. Your lady may judge you based on how you treat others. Do not laugh boisterously when a man stumbles or walks right into a glass door. Your insensitivity will turn her off. Say “Thank you” when a waiter serves you a glass of water or “Sorry” when you accidentally bump someone. Do this even when she’s not around. Don’t forget, people can talk about you, and you want to make a good impression.

5. Respect yourself

Picking your nose or biting your nails in front of your lady is a big no no. Be presentable. Clean your face, comb your hair and iron your clothes before you meet her. And of course, trim your nails and brush your teeth. Check that you don’t have bad breath. When talking, avoid swearing and using of profane words. Your lady wants a respectable man.


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